Moments of Pleasure by Kate Bush
I’ve had this song stuck in my head for days.
I’ve had this song stuck in my head for days.
This image is making the rounds of Facebook. It’s kind of amusing, until you look closely. Likely an honest mistake. I doubt whoever made the image even realizes that male and female pelvises are anatomically different. But they are, and this is just one more example of how male bodies are the default.
In this case, it’s exasperating but harmless. It can be dangerous to women, though, when we only study men’s bodies and then assume that women’s bodies behave just like men’s. Sometimes they do, but often they don’t.
As I was trying to sort and pre-treat laundry this morning, Piglet decided he just had to plop himself right in the middle of my work space. There were very important birds to watch, through the window. You can always tell when he’s happy, because his tail curls up. Birds make Piglet very, very happy.
Slide boxes! They aren’t a perfect solution, but they’re an improvement over the Ziploc bags my grandpa’s slides were stored in.
I grabbed the Tori Amos piano books for my youngest brother. I used to drag him to shows when he was a wee tot, and one of them was Tori. He’s always loved her music.
The Noel Streatfield book reminded me of a childhood friend who died a few years ago. She introduced me to Dancing Shoes and Trixie Belden.
And a couple of pairs of jeans, Shel Silverstein, and some old, cloth covered binders, to round it all out.
My aunt sent me a link to a maritime history site that had searchable newspaper extracts. I was able to track down another website with archived images from one of the newspapers, where I found this ad in the Daily British Whig (17 June 1871, page 2, column 6).
There’s no way to know which Captain Couvrette was piloting the Union. It could have been Louis Charles or his (I am presuming) brother, George, who was also a boat captain.
I have spent weeks concentrating on Louis Charles and Philomene’s family group. I haven’t even begun to investigate laterally, so Captain George Couvrette will have to wait until I get the time to untangle Louis Charles’ siblings and figure out who was who.
My aunt also uncovered evidence of some Couvrettes settling in the Red Lake area of Minnesota (Joseph Couvrette appears to have married a native woman named Mari). That wouldn’t be far, geographically, from the Crookston area, where Louis Charles finally settled. I have no idea where the relation between Louis Charles and Joseph is, but there is sure to be one. That’s another puzzle to add to the To Research list.
Yes, this AGAIN.
I am convinced, though I have only negative proof, that Marie Catherine and Alma are the same person.
1. I have a baptismal register entry for Marie Catherine in 1862 but none for Alma.
Both the younger and older siblings Marie Catherine and Alma are sandwiched between were baptized at St-Joachim in Châteauguay, so it makes sense (though is no guarantee) that any children born in between would have been baptized there, as well. I have manually searched every page of the St-Joachim register for those years, to no avail. If there was another child born to Louis Charles and Philomene, between their youngest and Louis, she wasn’t baptized at St-Joachim.
2. I have found no trace of Marie Catherine after her baptism.
She does not appear in any census, and as far as I can tell, there is no record of her marriage or burial. She disappeared into thin air. Granted, she was born in 1862 and the next census was in 1871, and a lot can happen in nine years.
3. The 1901 Census of Canada recorded exact birth dates, and Alma’s is given as 25 November 1863. Now, that’s a year off, but the month is correct. It’s absolutely possible that two children could be born nearly exactly a year apart, especially in a large Catholic family at that place and time. However, I think it’s also possible that adult Alma was wrong about her birth year. That seems like a believable mistake.
4. What was Alma’s baptismal name? Surely it would have been prepended with Marie and another name, as was the norm in this family. Nor does the baptismal register give any indication of what Marie Catherine’s third name would have been. That’s the name she would have gone by in regular life. Was there one child, named Marie Catherine Alma?
I’m not ready to merge the two individuals, but I may eventually do so, after a bit more searching. By 1868, the family had changed churches, and the next batch of children were baptized and buried at Sts.-Anges-Gardiens, in Québec. That register is a little more difficult to search (it’s much larger than St-Joachim’s register and is not indexed), so I haven’t searched it thoroughly yet. It may be that Marie Catherine’s burial is recorded there.
Y’all, this is the stuff that keeps me up at night.

Quebec Official Gazette volume XII number 44 page 55
When all else fails, use Teh Googles. Which I did this morning, during my work break. And look what I found! I’m not completely sure what it means, but it’s kind of interesting nonetheless. Philomene is, for some reason, suing Louis Charles for separation of property. This was often done at or right after marriage, to ensure the wife had property of her own (though that could work against her, too, in the event of a divorce). In this case, they’d been married for 19 years and had 16 (SIXTEEN!) children. The marriage was no spring chicken. Separation of property could also occur at the time of divorce. But that doesn’t seem to have been the case, either, as the couple–together and with their minor children–upped stakes and headed to Minnesota just a few years after this notice was published.
Did Philomene intend to file for divorce, but then changed her mind? Was she trying to protect the couple’s assets (or at least, her share of them)? Was she trying to put the fear of God into Louis Charles? Was the move to Minnesota somehow tied up with all of this?
Interestingly, the couple were living together at the time of the 1885 Minnesota census, but Philomene is not in the home during the 1895 Minnesota census. I have no idea where she was between 1885 and her death in 1904. Maybe the 1895 census is a fluke, and she was living with the family but was off visiting someone on the day the census was enumerated?
And for good measure, the most recent family group screen shot. If you look closely, you’ll see that not all the children fit on the screen. That may be the definition of TOO MANY KIDS.