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Counting the Dead

Lucena Pfuffer Parsons took pains to record not just her impressions of the new sights surrounding her, but she also took careful note of the graves she passed by. A macabre task to set oneself to, but perhaps also a way to memorialize those who had died along the trail.

This passage struck me as particularly poignant, but also amazing in its matter-of-factness. In nearly the same breath, she describes graves dug up and bodies torn apart by wolves, and then the quality of feed they found in the area for their stock. That\’s one hell of a circle of life.

July 18 [1850]

This morning the wether is hot, too hot to go far. We only made about 12 miles. Stoped some 2 or 3 hours in the hotest part of the day. The sheep seem nearly done over with the heat. We have passt some 12 graves & I am told there is a burying ground near here of 300 graves. If so it must be a general camping ground for near these I find the most graves. I see some painfull sights where the wolves have taken up the dead & torn their garments in pieces & in some instances the skulls & jaw bones are strewed over the ground. Feed very poor what we find is on the river in low places. Wether dry as yet.

Parsons, Lucena Pfuffer, 1821-1905, Diary of Lucena Parsons, July, 1850, in Covered Wagon Women: Diaries & Letters from the Western Trails, vol. 2: 1850. Holmes, Kenneth L., ed. & comp. Lincoln, NE: University of Nebraska Press, 1995, pp. 294.

Art, Crankypantsing, Doodles

Staff Meeting Doodle

Staff Meeting Doodle
gel pen in composition notebook
4 1/2 x 4 1/2 inches

After spending the majority of the weekend uploading photos to Findagrave, I got up this morning to an email from someone who either has absolutely no people skills or who has a giant rude streak. I can’t tell which, and I don’t really care. The name on one of the headstones I photographed apparently used the woman’s middle name in place of her first name. Presumably she went by her middle name, which is not unheard of. But how the hell should I know it was her middle name? I just have what’s in front of me to go by.

The email had a list (I kid you not!) of reasons why I should delete my record, including the fact that the person was a family member. Okay, but I don’t need a list, like I’m some sort of mentally challenged three year old. Duplicate records happen with fair frequency, and a simple, “This is a duplicate, can you please remove it?” is all that’s needed. Really. It’s that simple. No lecture wanted or required, pleaseandthanks.

The best part, though? She instructed me to upload my headstone photo to her record, with not a word of thanks for having taken and shared the photo in the first place. WTF?! So no, I don’t think I’ll be doing that. I happily go out of my way to take photos for people who have the good sense to ask nicely, but I’m not too motivated to share them with people who lecture me like I’m a child.

Cemeteries, Photography

Margaret Bonewell

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Margaret A. Wife of E. Bonewell Born Apr. 17, 1830. Died Apr. 4, 1892.
Mount Moriah Cemetery, Bucklew Road, Spencer, Owen County, Indiana

I’m slowly uploading photos I took last spring to Findagrave. I finished Bethel and River Hill Cemeteries last week and am currently working on Mount Moriah. It’s a tedious, time-consuming job, which is why I’m so far behind on it[1]. It’s not made any easier by the fact that in one section of the cemetery, the stones have discolored. I have no idea whether there’s something strange about the composition of the stone itself or maybe someone tried to clean the markers with something that caused an unfortunate chemical reaction or what. Whatever the cause, there are a bunch of blackened stones there.

I was tempted not to even try photographing them, because the inscriptions were almost impossible to make out. I’m glad I did, though. The photos aren’t great, but they are fairly well legible. Someone else uploaded images from the same cemetery to Findagrave but didn’t include the blackened stones. I wonder if she even tried photographing them?

Alsotoo, this is why I sometimes take some of my headstone photos at such weird angles. I’m trying to make the light work for me, to get as much contrast from shadows and highlights as possible. If I’d taken a head-on photo of the above stone, it would have just been a solid black mess.

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1. First, the images have to be processed, to make the inscriptions as legible as possible. Then I upload them to Flickr and transcribe them. During the transcriptions, I have to do a lot of searching at Ancestry to make sure I’m interpreting the dates as correctly as possible. And then I re-upload them to Findagrave. If someone else has already created a record for the person, it’s pretty straightforward to add an image. If not, I have to create a new record and add the headstone image and inscription.

And before any of that can be done, I have to get out and take the images, which involves trying to figure out which cemeteries are the least well documented but also accessible (not on private property). I also have to look at satellite images, to try to figure out how large the cemetery is. I’m trying to visit just the smaller ones at this point, because they seem to be the most overlooked. If I ever run out of smaller graveyards, I’ll move onto larger ones, but I don’t think that’s going to happen any time soon.

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Elizabeth Dixon Smith Geer

Another passage from Elizabeth Dixon Smith Geer’s journal caught my attention. Some of the women write about taking the opportunity to explore the strange landscapes they see along the trail. Elizabeth’s husband trekked up a mountain and noted the striations of the rocks and the fossils contained within them. He described them to his wife when he returned.

August 7 [1847]

made 15 miles encamped on Blacks fork a small river bordered with willows this large waste of country in my opinion has once been a see my husband found on top of a mountain sea shells petrified in the stone the creaces in the rocks show the different stages of the water.

Geer, Elizabeth Dixon Smith, 1808/9?-1855, Diary of Elizabeth Dixon Geer, August, 1847, in Covered Wagon Women: Diaries & Letters from the Western Trails, vol. 1: 1840-1849. Holmes, Kenneth L., editor and compiler.  Lincoln, Nebraska: University of Nebraska Press, 1995, page 136.

What also struck me about this entry is that it shows that not just the poor and uneducated set out for the west. Clearly, Elizabeth and her husband possessed knowledge of natural history and an understanding that the world we know was once vastly different. (The basic rules of spelling and punctuation may be another matter, however!)

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Elizabeth Dixon Smith Geer

I’ve often wondered about the pioneer women who were forced or coerced to leave their homes, their loved ones, and all that is familiar behind them. I’m sure most of them resigned themselves to follow their husbands, but I’m not surprised that some women got thoroughly fed up.

[Sept] 15 [1847]

layed by this morning one company moved on except one family the woman got mad and would not budge nor let the children he had his cattle hitched on for 3 hours and coaxing her to go but she would not stur I told my husband the circumstance and him and Adam Polk and Mr Kimble went and took each one a young one and cramed them in the wagon and her husband drove off and left her siting she got up took the back track travled out of sight cut a cross overtook her husband meantime he sent his boy back to camp after a horse that he had left and when she came up her husband says did you meet John yes was the reply and I picked up a stone and nocked out his brains her husband went back to asertain the truth and while he was gone she set one of his waggons on fire which was loaded with store goods the cover burnt off and some valueable artickles he saw the flame and came runing and put it out and then mustered spunk enough to give her a good floging her name is Marcum she is cousin to Adam Polks wife

Geer, Elizabeth Dixon Smith, 1808/9?-1855, Diary of Elizabeth Dixon Geer, September, 1847, in Covered Wagon Women: Diaries & Letters from the Western Trails, vol. 1: 1840-1849. Holmes, Kenneth L., ed. & comp. Lincoln, NE: University of Nebraska Press, 1995, pp. 272.

A footnote in the introduction to Elizabeth’s journal clarifies that Mrs. Marcum did not actually kill the boy she hit with the rock. He shows up in a later Census, alive and well. Mrs. Marcum did end up following her husband west, where they were later divorced. Unsurprisingly.

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Patty Bartlett Sessions

I said before that the covered wagon women were made of stern stuff. Mrs. Sessions, a midwife and all around extraordinary human being, not only did the cooking and washing for her family, but she delivered babies along the route and drove her own team of oxen. She had good cause to be proud of herself. And then she delivered the first baby in the new Mormon settlement at what was to become Salt Lake City.

Saturday 25 [1847]

P G went back to help up the rear of his camp they have all got here safe some broken waggons but no broken bones I have drove my waggon all the way but part of the two last mts P G drove a litle I broke nothing nor turned over had good luck I have cleaned my waggon and my self and visited some old friends

Sunday [Sept.] 26 [1847]

go to meeting hear the epistle read from the twelve then went put Lorenzo Youngs wife Harriet to bed with a son the first male born in this valley it was said to me more than 5 months ago that my hands should be the first to handle the first born son in the place of rest for the saints even in the city of our God I have come more than one thousand miles to do it since it was spoken

Sessions, Patty Bartlett, 1795-1892, Diary of Patty Bartlett Sessions, September, 1847, in Covered Wagon Women: Diaries & Letters from the Western Trails, vol. 1: 1840-1849. Holmes, Kenneth L., ed. & comp. Lincoln, NE: University of Nebraska Press, 1995, pp. 272.

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Covered Wagon Women

I’ve been reading a series of books containing letters and journals written by women traveling on wagon trains to the western US. It sounds a little dull, but I’m actually riveted. Some of the passages are incredibly sad, like the daily tallies of graves passed by the side of the road, or the ticking off of names of fellow travelers who died of cholera. Other passages are filled with awe at the landscapes slowly passing by. And then there are the stories of women’s lives on the trail—women who may or may not have wanted to embark on such an adventure and who may or may not have had any say in the matter. Certainly no woman would have willingly signed on to be whipped every day.

july 28 [Sunday] [1850]

we went on to little sandy distance of twelve miles and their stoped for the day and to grase our catle we had to drive them five miles to grase and whilst the men ware gone with the catle this large train come in one mile of us and camped their a rose a quarel with them and what quareling I never heard the like they were whiping a man for whiping his wife he had whiped her every day since he joined the company and now they thought it was time for them to whip him and they caught him and striped him and took the ox gad to him and whiped him tremenduous she screamed and hollerd for him till one might have hare him for three miles

Davis, Sarah Green, 1826-1906, Diary of Sarah Green Davis, July, 1850, in Covered Wagon Women: Diaries & Letters from the Western Trails, vol. 2: 1850. Holmes, Kenneth L., ed. & comp. Lincoln, NE: University of Nebraska Press, 1995, pp. 294.

And then there were the sheer numbers of people making the trek out west. Nothing I learned in history classes ever really made it as clear as this:

Friday, August 16 [1850]

We set forward again at ten o’clock and soon began to realize what might be before us. For many weeks we had been accustomed to see property abandoned and animals dead or dying. But those scenes were here doubled and trebled. Horses, mules, and oxen, suffering from heat, thirst, and starvation, staggered along until they fell and died on every rod of the way. Both sides of the road for miles were lined with dead animals and abandoned wagons. Around them were strewed yokes, chains, harness, guns, tools, bedding, clothing, cooking-utensils, and many other articles, in utter confusion. The owners had left everything, except what provisions they could carry on their backs, and hurried on to save themselves.

In many cases the animals were saved by unhitching them and driving them on to the river. After resting, they were taken back to the wagons, which in this way were brought out.

But no one stopped to gaze or to help. The living procession marched steadily onward, giving little heed to the destruction going on, in their own anxiety to reach a place of safety. In fact, the situation was so desperate that, in most cases, no one could help another. Each had all he could do to save himself and his animals.

Frink, Margaret Ann Alsip, 1818-1893, Diary of Margaret Ann Alsip Frink, August, 1850, in Covered Wagon Women: Diaries & Letters from the Western Trails, vol. 2: 1850. Holmes, Kenneth L., ed. & comp. Lincoln, NE: University of Nebraska Press, 1995, pp. 294.

Masses and masses of humans and livestock, all streaming westward in a ceaseless river. And the women! Made of very stern stuff, they were. Margaret Ann Aslip Frisk, for one, spent much of the six month long journey walking or riding horseback. Sidesaddle. In a corset.